How to get over my break up?
H: Time is the best remedy. In the world we live in, there is no method other than letting time pass and agreeing to not having contact with them. To solidify the process, you must then acknowledge and accept why things ended that way. (BEWARE this way of going about it may vary depending on the relationship and those involved.)
I: On top of all of that, take the opportunity to spend more time with your friends. It can be easy when you’re in a relationship to neglect the other important people in your life.
If he’s playing me, do I play him back?
I: This might be controversial, but I’d say no. There will be points in your life where people treat you badly and if you try to “match their energy” because you’re scared of getting hurt or want to come across as nonchalant, then you’re just letting yourself get dragged down by their immaturity and disrespecting yourself. Value your energy; people who deserve it aren’t going to play games with you.
How do I get over being dropped by a friend group?
M: As Miss D1 crashout herself, this is one of my favorite topics. First, you have to take time to process how it happened. Realizing what led up to fallout can be as equally painful as it can be healing, especially if there is work to be done on both ends. My advice is be free in having no expectations, owing no one any loyalty and never conditioning yourself or selling yourself first for temporary validation. Wishing you the best!
How do I get teachers to like me without sucking up?
H: Don’t be a robot; make sure you’re solid in the classroom and bring some personality with you.
I: Ask lots of questions, smile and say good morning when you walk into the room, and show as much of an interest in the subject as you can. (Most) teachers don’t mind when you aren’t naturally good at their class; they’ll like and respect you if you put in the effort. Also remember that they’re people with personal lives too, so try to give them some grace.
M: Relating things you learn to their interests never hurts too, all humans love to talk about the things they love.
